I am still struggling through this crazy thing called online dating. It is all really confusing and my mood fluctuates daily with how I’m feeling keeping up with all of it. One of the most annoying things is realizing what the majority of guys are like…at least online. It is shocking to me how so many of them are incapable of spelling and using the correct form of your/’re. That right there is one of the BIGGEST turn-offs EVER!!!
Another thing is that guys can be really bold online or really not. I almost never find the Mr. Just Right guy. Too many of the messages I get are flattering I guess, but you know when someone that grosses you out compliments you, you don’t really care…well that’s how I feel. Most of these guys are ones that I would never want to talk to. I don’t respond to the majority of them because I don’t see the point.
The ones that don’t flatter you just ask you odd questions…I have been asked this one twice just different variations.
I want to respond…uh, of course I talk to black guys…I’m just 100% not in to you.
Then there are the ones that are trying to flatter you but are having a really hard time.
Honestly at least this guy used the correct form of you’re, he was just missing the ‘. Below are just a few of the ones that come from any and all of the sites I frequent. One poor guy was trying to talk about the Holy Spirit but he just didn’t know how to spell “holy.”
This last one I like to call Single White Male. He came across really creepy and his picture was not not creepy. He also included his number at the bottom but I cut it out for his privacy and maybe your safety 🙂
I really do not like calling or texting someone for the first message. You would be shocked to see how many guys just give their numbers out in the first message.
As you can tell I am still dating and wondering what’s going to happen next. I went on a date Saturday and he was nice but I wasn’t in to him. I also was a little unsure if he was gay or not but definitely not…that’s another story for another day.